Foreword: In collaboration with Sue Ann’s 100th Post Anniversary in Project Love 365, four world famous, gorgeous and gifted bloggers – Cheng Wei aka Squareberry, Shi Hui from Portie’s rabbit hole, Taitong from Defying Gravity and myself from SbR – are invited to share their thoughts on “Happily Ever After”. So what if my make-believe world only consists of five bloggers (plus Sue Ann)! HAH. So here goes!
[Warning: Individuals with attention deficiency are encouraged to skip this potentially long-ranty-preachy post.]

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“Happily Ever After” is often associated with fairy tales when the princess and the prince say I do. It signify a happy ending where one finds his/her true love and lives happily with them for the rest of their life and be constantly happy with no end. It seems like “Happily Ever After” is what everyone is looking for at least at some stage in life so it seems that “Happily Ever After” is the final destination/goal in life.
When will “Happily Ever After” starts? When you find your true love? So, after you found him/her, what’s next? People around will start asking for their wedding date. Wait! I thought “Happily Ever After” was here after one found his/her true love?
Fine maybe not. Maybe it only happens when one gets married! Right. So couples spend months and tons of money planning for their dream wedding hoping it’s finally “Happily Ever After”. After spending much effort, surely “Happily Ever After” is here?!
Along the way, the couple starts having kids and starts stressing over their child’s growth and development, education and career, his/her “Happily Ever After”, his/her family, his/her kids, his/her kids’ growth and development, his/her kids’ education and career and if they live long enough, his/her kids’ “Happily Ever After”.
Where the heck is “Happily Ever After”? When is it coming? My point is this – will there ever be a time when you are constantly happy with no end?
With much self discussion, my definition of “Happily Ever After” is a state of mind where one experience happiness and assume that this happiness will last forever. Happiness is often associated with happenings / events like, finding one true love, getting married or having kids. Happiness is fickle, shallow and fleeting. Sad but true.
Instead of debating when that fickle-minded “Happily Ever After” will ever turn up, I would rather seek Joy, Christian Joy, where the source of joy comes from God regardless of your circumstances.
“Rejoice in the Lord.” (Philippians 3:1)
Instead of pursing Happily Ever After, let’s all seek “Joyfully Ever After.”
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